Making a difference for children living with cancer

Young people diagnosed with cancer and undergoing treatment often feel disconnected and isolated from their peers.

Thanks to generous donations, we have been able to support fellow charity, Teenage Cancer Trust, and staff at the Royal Hospital for Children and Young People, to take nine young people aged 13-17 who have been diagnosed with cancer to attend a residential weekend at Crieff Hydro Hotel. The trip provided the young people with an opportunity to get some respite from the day-to-day challenges of illness and treatment and immerse themselves in a world of fun and friendship.

One of the participants told us: “I found new friends. Meeting kids with same condition, making me feel not alone. I feel happier.”

From exhilarating activities like high ropes, archery, laser tag, tennis and swimming to relaxing moments of connection and shared experiences, the group had the opportunity to try something new and step out of their comfort zone. This helped them to increase confidence, improve their self-esteem, and develop a stronger ability to share their experiences with others.

A staff member who accompanied the group commented that: “They were able to discuss the impact of their cancer diagnosis and treatment on things like friends, school, body image, side effects and changing family dynamics and there was a real sense that the others ‘got it’.”

The retreat also made a lasting impact on the young people’s families as well as the staff who care for them.

The families were pleased that their children could connect with others and take part in activities that they didn’t feel was possible after their diagnosis, as well as getting some time to relax and recharge themselves knowing their children were in a safe and nurturing environment.

After a long two years of not able to do anything and being socially isolated, he is now feeling socially included again,” said one family member.

The NHS Lothian staff who accompanied the group also benefitted from the experience. The opportunity to connect with the young people in a relaxed setting strengthened relationships and provided valuable insights into their challenges and triumphs. This was summarised by one member of staff who said: “Seeing young people on treatment and feeling at their worst and then seeing them in a completely different situation is also hugely rewarding as a practitioner.”

This special weekend was a reminder that even in difficult times, joy and friendship can thrive.